Your Relationship Can Still Be Saved

Even If She's Pulling Away....

3 Core Skills To Master Attraction & Connection Through Leadership

(Used by men 25-70 years old with documented proven results)

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This is Leadership, not pickup.
Presence, not performance

👇 WHY WOMEN PULL AWAY

When she pulls away, men usually fall into one of these:

  • 1. Over-Pursuing

    ●Double texts, essays, “just checking in”.

    ● You’re trying to calm your anxiety, not lead the situation.

    She feels: pressure, not presence.

  • 2. Silent Punishment

    ● You go cold, ignore her, hope she chases.

    ● You call it “space”… it’s actually a tantrum.

    She feels: immaturity, not strength.

  • 3. Reassurance Hunting

    ●“Are we good?”

    ● “Where is this going?”

    ● Stalking her socials.

    You’re begging her nervous system to tell you you’re safe. She feels: “He doesn’t believe in his own value.”

  • 4. Trying To Prove You’re The Good Guy

    ● Explaining every move.

    ● Over-owning things that aren’t yours.

    ● Performing emotional intelligence.

    You’re trying to earn love by showing you’re “different”. She feels: pressure and performance, not leadership.

Every time you do one of these, attraction drops.

Authority drops.

Trust drops.

Fix these habits… and women don’t just stay

they lean in, relax, and invest.

WHAT MSD ACTUALLY DOES 👇

Masculine Social Dynamics = How to lead women, tension and intimacy without abandoning yourself.

Inside the membership you will:

Rewire your nervous system

So you stop shaking, over-talking, and spiralling when she tests you.

Master frame

So her moods, distance or chaos don’t pull you into fixing or fawning.

Use polarity on purpose

Distance, silence, play, honesty – to build chemistry instead of killing it

Set clean masculine boundaries

So you can walk if she can’t meet you, without drama or essays.

Lead intimacy

From first message → first date → conflict → commitment… without turning into a nice guy or a cold robot.

This isn’t pickup.

It’s leadership training for men whose kryptonite is women.

Real Clients,

Real Results

87% of clients in relationships within 6 months

94% report increased dating confidence

Average client books 3x more quality dates

500+ successful transformations since 2017

I was always searching, addicted to feminine approval and now I am leading events, I have an abundance of women and dates and I am slowly taking the pick of the right woman for me

David went from working in corporate to building a wellness movement event, using social leadership in an absolute abundance of dates and women

From being depressed and unengaged to rekindling the spark and intimacy with his partner.

Jack went on to build his business up to multi 6 figures with the full support of his partner. He got out of his own way

Got over the "mess" of my ex leaving me for a best friend to call in a woman who supports and encourages my business success and be happy

Ricky went on to build his real estate company to be one of the most prominent in Adelaide, Australia, with complete support from he new woman

In 6 months I tripled my business, my revenue and found the woman of my dreams... after an approval addiction

Robbie went on keeping this trajectory for 3 years still with the woman still crushing his business

Focused on myself moved to Bali and opened a motorcross park and am now living my dream life

Louis went on to build a life that he loved with an abundance of opportunity without distraction

My wedding didn't happen, I was down and now I have the tools to deal with everything. Putting boundaries in with people.

Ari went on to become a father and scale his business.

I was very self conscious of how people thought of me which effected my business and relationships to being more confident and leading

Ben went on to scale business and continuing to lead in his relationship

Got My Ex Back and Tripled Revenue since joining Set The Standard" - Jack M

Jack went from 2k - 6k per month in 3 months on our Self Discovery Membership with his email marketing company

I have aura now and I completely got over my fear of dating and approaching women

Joseph went on to become a leader in his community, his career and became completely confident talking to and dating women.

"I am now the man that I have always wanted to be and I found my purpose

Harry went on to build his fitness business, get over an ex and travel the world

I was shy, nervous and couldn't get over feminine approval. I am now with a sexy successful woman who makes more than I and I am not intimidated, she follows my every lead. This is the power of M.S.D.

Mark has made more money, has more confidence and has moved through every trigger in dating and he found someone worthy enough his heart, who melts into him like butter

Stepping into my masculine has been HUGE for me, I have been so much better in relaitonships

Andy went to set himself free form the inside out and take challenges in life he resisted to because of all the internal processing he did around some deep inner wounds.

FEAR IS THE MIND KILLER

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EDUCATION

Start Here, Fix Your Pattern

Set The Standard – Education

For men who want the full MSD system and are ready to do the work.

You get:

● Private community access

● Presence Foundations

● Dating Strategies Playbook

● 18 Pillars of MSD: frame, polarity, tension, boundaries, tests

● Purpose course (connect back to mission)

👉 Best for men who are done consuming content and ready to stop spiralling over one woman.

ACCELERATOR

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For men who want results fast

You get everything in Education, plus:

● Weekly live coaching & hot seats

● Personalised video breakdowns

● New monthly trainings

● Tools and drills for calibration & attraction
● Social Dynamics AI support

Best for men who want feedback now:

● How to communicate with presence

● How to set boundaries & lead

● Stay grounded when she tests.

DIAMOND

Full Takeover with 1:1 Support

Diamond 1:1 – 6 Month Intensive

Diamond 1:1 – 6 Month Intensive For leaders who want you in their pocket while they rebuild every area: dating, intimacy, leadership.

● 1:1 calls

● WhatsApp access

● Retreat + workshops

● Entourage access

● High-level network

👉 Best for men in their 30s–50s+ who want piercing presence to supercharge intimacy, and fulfilment beyond the material

👇 HOW MSD WORKS

Calibrate & Self-Audit

Voice, eye contact, stillness.

Learn to hold tension without collapsing

Communicate Like a Leader

Clear invitations

Direct intentions

Boundaries without essays

Constraint & Standards

Pace intimacy

Protect your bonding

Stop proving yourself.

Leadership Embodiment

Reps in real conversations, dates, and conflict

You stop playing the boyfriend role and start being a man she can actually follow

Fast wins:

First week: less spiralling, cleaner texts, more calm.

2–4 weeks: noticeable shift in how women respond to you.

MEET THE FOUNDER

Hey, I'm Coreyboutwell!

I spent years chasing perfection: muscle, money, status, trying to prove I was enough.

I hid every weakness.

Relationships died.

Work became my mask.

Then I stopped performing and started leading myself, from calm clarity, not fear.

That shift changed everything.

I’ve walked through hell, touched heaven, and now drive my life with unshakable presence.

I don’t sell hype.

I’ve lived every piece of discipline and tension I teach. Guided 300+ men, millionaires included, from hollow success to real power.

Masculine Social Dynamics isn’t another course.

It’s the fast-track removal of everything fake so the real king steps forward.

Stop pretending. Start leading.

Corey Boutwell

MSD is the system I built by:

● Going through hell in relationships.

● Studying polarity, leadership, trauma and tension.

● Coaching hundreds of men whose lives looked “together” but were getting run by one woman.

This isn’t theory pulled from a book.

It’s field-tested in business, in the gym, and in relationships. If you want hype, this isn’t it.

If you want to stop abandoning yourself for women, this is where you start.

INTRODUCING...

SET THE STANDARD MEMBERSHIP

THIS IS NOT "PICK UP" ITS MASCULINE LEADERSHIP AT ITS PEAK 🏔️

Mastering Masculine Social Dynamics

You’ve already proven you can work hard.

You’ve already built a body, a career, or both.

The thing that still owns you?

One woman’s nervous system. MSD is where that ends.

Most men only buy when they break. Leaders buy before they crack.

Education or Entourage – choose your lane and we’ll handle the rest.

MEMBERS SAY THIS:👇

Cuts the B.S. and use practical tools

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👇 WHAT YOU GET INSIDE

Frequently Asked Questions

Communication That Actually Works

Learn how to speak clearly, directly, and honestly without coming off like a jerk or a people-pleaser. Say what you want without aggression. Communicate in a way that builds connection and sexual tension.

Attract and Keep A High-Quality Woman

You’ll stop chasing women who drain your energy and start attracting women who match it.

We’ll teach you how to create sexual polarity, emotional safety, and respect without losing yourself.

No manipulation, no games just presence, boundaries, and truth.

High-quality women respond to men who know who they are and after this, you’ll become that man.

Tools for Leading in Intimacy

Learn the practical tools and embodied skills to create sexual connection safely. Understand how to build desire through presence, tone, and emotional grounding, not manipulation.

Confidence That Lasts

We rewire your nervous system so confidence stops being situational. You’ll feel grounded in your posture, your eye contact, your words everywhere you go.

This isn’t “fake it till you make it.” It’s a calm certainty that stays.

Practical Tools Not Wishy Washy Content

These aren’t hacks or theories. They’re principles that show you how attraction, respect, and long-term partnership actually function. Once you live by them, you stop chasing and start leading.

Set Masculine Boundaries & Standards

Set clear non-negotiables for dating, relationships, and leadership.

Learn to say no without guilt and still be respected.

Reframe “nice guy” behavior into calm masculine authority.

Build discipline, self-trust, and consistency that men feel and women notice

Real Brotherhood & Accountability

Experience what it feels like to be around men who actually hold standard. Leave with a tribe that calls you forward, not out.

Honesty without judgment. Real support instead of isolation.

A circle that keeps you sharp long after the event ends.

Rewire Your Nervous System

You won’t “try” to be confident you’ll become it.

Through breathwork, feedback, and masculine embodiment, we retrain how your body holds energy under pressure.

You’ll stop shaking, fidgeting, and overthinking and start walking, talking, and leading with calm certainty. When you walk into a room, women and men alike will feel it that quiet authority that can’t be faked.

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