7 Signs You Are Being the Best Boyfriend Ever and Killing Attraction

By Corey Boutwell

She does not want less of you

She wants the version of you that existed before you put her comfort above your own truth. Here are 7 signs.

1. You do everything she asks, and she starts to manage you instead of desire you.
2. You have not disagreed with her in weeks, because peace feels safer.
3. She says ‘you are so sweet’ and you take it as a win.
4. You apologise first every time, even when it was not your fault.
5. You plan, remember and anticipate everything, and she starts to feel like a project.
6. Her friends ask why she seems bored, and on paper you are doing everything right.
7. What is missing is your edge: your own wants, your own no, your own fire.

Bring your edge back

Say what you want. Say no when you mean no. Disagree kindly. Respect and being kind still matter. The change is adding your own voice back.

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